Dreams dating younger men
OK, I read this blog all the time and it has helped so much but now you bring up something that I honestly do not understand about men and makes me crazy honestly.I agree that chasing fantasy over reality is a futile chase for both sexes however, if men are visual but are torn between chasing looks and stability why do men NEVER go for absolute knockouts who ALSO have great jobs, personalities, are loyal, etc. Evan, you often use the example of chasing the young hottie but what if that young hottie is actually a great person. I dreamed I was dating a guy who I used to have a crush on (but I mean a long time ago) and certainly don’t like him now.Yet when I was “dating” him, my dreaming self was happy and it felt right.
But there I was, standing amongst a crowd of people feeling slightly alien.
I have come to the conclusion that perhaps it’s not the guy at all, just the fact that you want to date someone and experience those pleasurable sensations in day-to-day life.
Subconsciously you yearn for something that you don’t currently have.
” I ask Thomas.“She was the craziest, most toxic, explosive, nightmare of a woman I’ve ever met,” he replied. I like it when things play out predictably to make my point. No more Latinas with tight shirts and tramp stamps.
We promptly went onto to remove all of the “fantasy girls” from his Favorites list. Thomas is a 48-year-old lawyer who needs a real partner who wants a family.